Category: Venus & Mars
Bamboozlement in the 21st Century
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“One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It is simply too painful to acknowledge — even to ourselves — that we’ve been so credulous.” – Carl Sagan (1934-1996) American [...]

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LEGO Stop-Motion Marriage Proposal
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I’ve been seeing a lot of creative wedding proposals lately. Dudes are going all out in 2012! I guess if you want to guarantee yourself an emphatic “YES!” then you better bring it. The old school dinner and dessert proposal aint wassup this year. This guy in particular must’ve spent madddddd time on this proposal. It’s a freakin stop-motion video [...]

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Let His Friends Be His Friends
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…for lack of a better title. A recent study by researchers at Cornell University and the University of Chicago finds that when a guy’s female partner gets too “chummy” with his male friends, he is more likely to suffer from symptoms of sexual dysfunction (impotence, loss of libido, disinterest). The phenomenon is called “partner betweenness,” which occurs when a woman becomes closer with [...]

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Signs She Wants to Commit
Commitment

Something to think about this summer. Men often times like to play the “oh i didn’t know you felt that way” role when ish hits the fan. Well here are some ways to tell she’s definitely not into sharing you with those other hussies. Yes, hussies.

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The High-Class Heaux Next Door
ashley-dupre

The face of prostitution has evolved slowly over the years. Growing up, I knew there were dirty hoes like those on the Vegas strip (i watched HBO at night)….and there were clean, high class hoes like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. Nothing much has changed in the prostitution industry since the 90s…other than the face/profile of the high class escort. [...]

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There Is More To That Kiss
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Chris Brown Ft. T Pain – Kiss Kiss #nohomo. Before I begin I wanna ask what’s really good with making out with random people at a club or party, and how/why do people do it? I’ve heard stories of serial kissers. You know, the guy/girl who makes out with 5 people during a night out (usually a bar crawl or [...]

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Last Day For Ground Delivery
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If you’re celebrating Valentine’s Day next Monday then you are well aware of this…the last day that (free) ground delivery will be available to you. Depending on where you live in proximity to your online retailer’s warehouse, that “3-5 days” could buy you another day or so BUT you dont want to end up being THAT guy/girl. Side Note: You [...]

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Does Everyone Want This One Day?
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As sad as it may seem to some people (cut from a rather pessimistic/realistic cloth), I think everyone…deep down inside…wants this….one day. Wouldn’t it be nice? I think so. This is what we all grew up reading about in fairytales and watching in movies. Unfortunately many of us saw and experienced quite the contrary over the years. However, I still [...]

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What Ever Happened to the Girl That…
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Growing up I anticipated the women of my 20s, the years that old heads refer to as their “heyday.” Now, mid-way through it, I realize that things have changed since the 80s (and even the 90s)…and they’ve changed for the worse. The following is a collection of my grievances. What ever happened to the girl that…….. Cooked (maruchan/ramen noodles doesn’t [...]

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Shes Just Not That Into You…or is she?
tebowcries

Firstly, I like this picture. “And so when the evening was over, there was no lingering, just a polite good night. She stood there silent, glass of wine in her hands, with a look of puzzlement on her face,” he recalls. “As the doors closed, it hit me like a ton of bricks that she was shocked that I hadn’t followed [...]

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Manscaping DOs and DONTs
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Just read an AskMen article on “manscaping” aka male grooming. The conclusion: “It’s not necessary to base all your grooming choices on what women will think, of course (feel free to shave your balls if it feels good to you), but since women are the ones you want to see you naked, you should at least take their opinions into account [...]

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She Needs to be Reassured
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Women need to reassured of your unwavering interest in them and all things concerning them. This is one of the most important aspects of a healthy/happy relationship. As guys, we too need the occasional reassurance (and most women are usually good at doing this) but it’s just not that life-changing for us. If you’re still confused, im talking about situations [...]

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5 Questions Guys Can’t Answer
ToughQuestions

There are just some things guys either leave to chance/life or they just love avoiding. Honestly, some things just aren’t that important to us. We live simply. We live in the moment. We don’t plan out our lives emotionally. For instance, we are so sure of what car we’ll be driving 5 years from now, but we are clueless as [...]

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Ladies, Be Single.
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I was watching Current TV the other night and they were discussing sex & relationships. One of the segments touched on how women should “be single” despite actually being single. Yes, that sounds repetitive…but it’s true. According to Current TV, 62% of women in Manhattan NY are single. I’m sure this doesn’t count women with boyfriends, but nonetheless…there are still [...]

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You Are Disqualified If…
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There are some things that automatically disqualify you from being dated. I honestly think these points are universal and therefore should apply to both men and women. 1) You wear shades in the club This says more about you than you think. Honestly there can only be a few reason why you walked out of the house with shades on [...]

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5 Hard Things To Say To Your Lover
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1) “No.” This could come in many different shapes and forms, but it’s always something you think twice about saying. Depending on your role in the relationship it could be easier or harder for you to say “no” to going out to the movies this Friday…or “no” to picking him/her up from Aunty J’s house, who happens to live 40min [...]

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Proper Usage of “Chick”
chick

People use the word “chick” loosely (I am one of them). However, i’m going to break it down how I feel it should be used. Please direct hate mail to getalife@fmlmail.com Call her a chick if she is: 1. single 2. random 3. under 40 4. not your girlfriend 5. not related

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Life Lesson: Men/Women Friendship
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I won’t say anything. Just watch the clip.

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7 Double Standards Women Face

This was actually a comment/reply to my post “Top 10 Double Standards Men Face”. The user, stiletto, shed some light on what common double standards women face. Some of these I was very aware of, and others not so much. Good Read. Enjoy. #7 – On a less serious side, double standards exist even in daily things such a communication. The [...]

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Top 10 Double Standards Men Face
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http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_60/70b_dating_list.html

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