There are just some things guys either leave to chance/life or they just love avoiding. Honestly, some things just aren’t that important to us. We live simply. We live in the moment. We don’t plan out our lives emotionally. For instance, we are so sure of what car we’ll be driving 5 years from now, but we are clueless as to what woman will be riding shotgun.
Here are a few questions that guys have a hard time answering:
1. Where do you see this [relationship] going?
Most guys think it’s just enough to like a girl and see where it goes. When this question comes up it’s usually followed by an awkward silence or hesitation because it sounds like an ultimatum. Men don’t like ultimatums. If we answer this question honestly it’ll usually lead to hurt feelings or her feeling led on. Rarely does this question come up at the right time in a relationship…when both people are on the same page.
2. What do you think about me?
what does that even mean???? There’s no good way of answering this. We’re going to leave something out that she thinks is extremely important…or we’re just completely lost as to why she’s even asking us this vague ass question.
3. Do you think she [my friend] is hot?
The answer is always “no!” … and if she actually is hot, the answer is “hell no!”
4. Do you want me to leave?
“Are you really going to make a me answer that?” Seriously, we would rather the girl just leave if she thinks she’s overstayed her visit. If we say “yes” it’s WWIII. If we say “no” and actually want her to leave then it’ll just be a miserable time.
5. Have you ever done this [very special thing] before?
If it’s something important/special to her and we’ve done it with another girl, it’s not a good look. It could be standing on top of the Mount Rushmore or performing an unorthodox maneuver in the bedroom, but whatever it is just got watered down by the fact that we’ve done it with another chick. Sad thing is that it probably would be 10x more significant with her than the first girl. Most guys will avoid this question or say “no”
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Forget these Qs…guys in general have their guard up whenever they suspect any question coming from a girl. It’s like a CAUTION…DANGER…RED ZONE flags go up before they even know what it is. They’ll hesitate even if it’s for a second or two to a yes/no question, even have a false sense of idea that being silent will just make the question go away. How simple can it get for a simple person when only yes/no is expected!?!?
In regard to these 5 particular questions…personally, they are pointless and serve no purpose. 3 out of the 5 questions if have to be asked just confirm that the relationship is not working out. Personally, I prefer to let actions do the talking. Words won’t change what the actions show otherwise. The fact is guys rather do and comply rather then talk. Therefore, if they must be asked just ask (don’t nag) and BE SPECIFIC of what you want to know.
real talk @DailyTonic